I’m tired of meeting white women with no race analysis who marry Black men and make these men feel like their race—their Blackness—is not a primary thing that defines them. For many Black men, the best-case scenario is that they can create a part of their lives where they are not solely defined by Black manhood. The worst-case scenario is that they think white womanhood is some kind of come-up from the abjection of Black womanhood.
