But instinct told me Greg wouldn’t be easy. As well, my feelings for Greg felt meaningful, messy, heady, intricate, and not entirely safe. He was not safe. Caution and sense told me that eventually these feelings would make me do something stupid, turn me into a fool, act against my best interests and better judgment. Despite the warning bells, or maybe because they were so loud and persistent, I admitted the truth, “Yes, Greg. Yes, I feel it, too.”