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He’s the kind of person who believes all Real Literature has already been written by dead white men.
It’s odd, sometimes, to think about how many kids grew up knowing me without really knowing me.
Maybe that’s the definition of nostalgia: getting sappy about things that are supposed to be insignificant.
Here is my dilemma: my passion is, at best, someone else’s guilty pleasure. Most of the world takes any opportunity to belittle this thing that centers women in a way most other media doesn’t. Romance novels are a punch line, despite being a million-dollar industry.
While I love romance, I’ve never believed in the concept of soul mates, which has always seemed a little like men’s rights activism: not a real thing. Love isn’t immediate or automatic; it takes effort and time and patience. The truth of it was that I’d probably never have the kind of luck with love the women who live in fictional seaside towns do. But sometimes I get this strange feeling, an ache not for something I miss, but for something I’ve never known.
Obtain the Perfect High School Boyfriend (heretofore known as PHSB), ideally by the middle of 10th grade, summer after 11th grade at the latest. Minimum requirements: - Loves reading - Respectable taste in music
My hair should make more sense than my future.
My favorite books got happily-ever-afters—why couldn’t I?
“Come on. I’m giving you an olive branch here.” “If I can’t smack you with it, what’s the point?”
It’s not that I dislike exercise. It’s just that it’s frowned upon to read books on the soccer field… which is what I did
‘Hate’ is a really strong word.
Like, I get it, ha ha, sometimes there are shirtless men on the covers. But what I’ll never understand is why people are so quick to trash this one thing that’s always been for women first. They won’t let us have this one thing that isn’t hurting anyone and makes us happy. Nope, if you like romance novels, you have zero taste or you’re a lonely spinster.”
“There’s too much bad shit in the world to listen to depressing music all the time.”
“There’s this word in Japanese: tsundoku,” Neil says suddenly. “It’s my favorite word in any language.” “What does it mean?” He grins. “It means acquiring more books than you could ever realistically read. There’s no direct translation.”
It’s hard to admit that you think you’re good at something creative. And then it’s so much worse for women. We’re told to shrug off compliments, to scoff when someone tells us we’re good at something. We shrink ourselves, convince ourselves what we’re creating doesn’t actually matter.”
The things that mattered to us for the past four years will shift and evolve, and I imagine they’ll keep doing that forever. It’s terrifying.
Opposites attract is my favorite trope, so it made sense to start there. Because, of course, the thing about opposites: they always have a lot more in common than they think.
I’ve given this boy the messiest parts of me, and he’s done nothing but convince me he’ll be careful with them.