“What matters is what’s in someone’s heart. That should be the first thing we look at after knowing we’re attracted. Because if you don’t like what’s in their heart, nothing else matters. I think many of us have become so distant from our own soul, we ignore people’s hearts completely. We stay fixated on their surface qualities or want to control the situation. We have to see beyond that and accept what we’re shown about someone’s true character. Whether it’s positive or negative, we have to make decisions according to that,”