think we have to accept each other’s individual lifestyles now, stop thinking we own this person, and be freer in our love for them. That, to me, is love in the twenty-first century. To let each other be what they want and to make sure they can both accept that before making the commitment. Until we accept the freedom of new while committing to those fundamental values of old—such as respect, support, selflessness at times, and loyalty—most will still be very lost.
