The Modern Break-Up

by Daniel Chidiac

I don’t think I’m cut out to be with someone. I either love them too much or I just don’t care. It’s always one way or the other. Maybe I should’ve been less available to him. I should’ve made it harder for him to get my time.”

“Closure comes from knowing ourselves, knowing our worth, and finally realizing what we deserve. It’s seeing the other person for who they really are, not who we’ve made them to be in our head. I don’t think he really knows why he acts the way he does. I don’t think he truly knows himself. If anything, your closure right now is knowing how confused he is. You want a man, not a little boy,”

stop letting your happiness be solely dependent on someone else’s mood.

Our high levels of insecurities are making us want it from people who don’t even care about us.

I don’t want to put those who don’t give a shit about me on a pedestal anymore,

“You have to stop expecting people who don’t love themselves to love you the way you love them.”

‘No matter how attractive a person’s potential may be, you have to date their reality.’

the end of the day, we choose who we dedicate our time to and who we allow in.

“It’s so easy to hate, but that isn’t going to heal you properly.

I like to see the best in people and give them a chance. Maybe I should stop being so open.” “Just don’t give your heart away to someone so easily. Share it but never give it away completely. You lose your connection with your soul that way.

But if a man is committing to a relationship, he should know what it involves before he does.

“You never know anyone fully, no matter if you’ve been with them for a whole lifetime. We are always learning about each other. You both have to be open to that.

Someone can love you and still do things to disrespect you.

But when someone truly

respects you, they won’t do things that they kno...