But we need to allow someone to grow on us, not predetermine the outcome so quickly. Once you start putting in your head ‘I want to be with this guy,’ especially so early on, it can be very dangerous. I think, if you got to know him better before committing so much, you would’ve picked up on that. The signs were probably there. That’s why you can’t completely give yourself so quickly. You need to make sure that the next guy you date is at the maturity level you are,”
