The Modern Break-Up

by Daniel Chidiac

“Closure comes from knowing ourselves, knowing our worth, and finally realizing what we deserve. It’s seeing the other person for who they really are, not who we’ve made them to be in our head. I don’t think he really knows why he acts the way he does. I don’t think he truly knows himself. If anything, your closure right now is knowing how confused he is. You want a man, not a little boy,” she said.

Sometimes I find myself writing emotional texts to people (either out of anger or hurt) then contemplating whether I should actually send them.

If a guy really wants to be with someone, he will do everything he can, and it will be very clear to you. If he’s only coming around here and there, it means he doesn’t really want it or is confused. And on the odd occasion that he does want it and isn’t being clear, then he’s not a man.

it’s about staying who you are and not losing yourself just to please someone else.