“but I found myself attracted to him.” She began lingering after meetings. Then she said, “I know this is crazy, and I hope you won’t think less of me, but I started texting with him.” Then she told me, “At IF:Gathering I pulled our mutual friend aside and said, ‘I need to lay down the last 2 percent I am not sharing with anyone. I need to say it.’ ” Then she said it out loud. And here’s where it gets crazy. She said, “Jennie, the moment I said it out loud, I have never been attracted to him since.”18
