One of my colleagues commented, “Jennie, I hear you. But if I choose to see the best in life, I am going to get taken advantage of.” Others affirmed her perspective. They were a little worried that if they didn’t keep their guard up, people would see their naivete and they would be targeted. That’s fair, I thought. I’ll never forget what Elizabeth, another of our team, then said, “So what? Wouldn’t you be happier?”