“I mean, what are you thinking? You can’t just . . . just . . . adopt a kid from some orphanage across the world and suddenly expect to know how to be its parent. It doesn’t work like that.”
How do women who get pregnant know how to parent? What an ignorant thing to say to a woman looking to adopt. We learn from experience. Getting pregnant doesn’t give you some magic “I know how to parent this child forever and ever” magic sauce. Every parent gets the grace from God and learns from experience and those around them.
