Real data is any pattern of behaviour and thought that backs a person’s actions, not words. People say a lot of shit to sound amazing. The sentiment behind what they say could very well be to sound thoughtful, caring and kind on purpose. But what people say and what they do are quite often two separate things. Therefore, don’t outright buy the nice-sounding bullshit they say. Observe whether it reflects in their choices as well. Choices, specifically, reveal
