your self? The answer in a lot of cases would be, fuck-all, because in our youth we are busy practising to become Mr Savage and Ms Flawless. And our ‘self’, to us, is definitely not those things; it’s confused, vulnerable and emotionally unstable. So, we ignore it. What you don’t realise is: you can’t be something you’re not. At best, what you’re gonna be is a copy, an imitation and a poor parody. But what you do have is the power to find out who you are, and fix and develop whatever you think is weak.

