people with self-serving motives or ‘bad’ motives, both know a single unbendable fact: there is only one route to gaining your trust and coming into your life—by being nice to you and making you feel good. In the beginning, they were great. Therefore, until you have real data, the perception ‘they are weird’, which essentially means, I don’t know them at all, helps you avoid falling into traps that take years of your life away and teach you nothing new.
