Not only does this bring down the number of rejections by a lot, the impact the rejections have almost stops mattering to you. You’re not playing the game of probability anymore. You are not desperately waving your flag to be accepted by anyone you desire. No, you have put the priorities of your own life on top. If you do find such a person but are met with rejection, the reminder that rejections are normal applies very aptly in that situation, as you must not forget, People are weird. It has nothing to do with you. What you have right now is a criteria, which is much better than having no
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