For a lot of people, love is the idea that someone else will make you happier than your self can. Right off the bat, that is a terrible idea. If both the parties believe that, it will lead to co-dependence, and if only one of the two does, it will lead to one becoming the other’s servant.
A very similar example of this would be all our stay home moms. They prioritize our lives so much over theirs, that they forget about their dreams and wishes. They forget about how much talent they have and how much they could achieve using those talents and become a hundred percent dedicated to our lives and dreams instead. And after all this we children take our mothers so much for granted that we think that she was born to do all this for us, which is undeniably cruel and unfair.
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