who can’t be sexist because he doesn’t like football, who can’t be sexist because he’s read Man Made Language by Dale Spender and votes Labour, who can’t be sexist because he once had a secret boyfriend, who can’t be sexist because he’s been writing anti-sexist comedy sketches since school and now gets paid to perform them on TV – that guy can’t possibly be in the grip of sexism. That guy might quietly notice that he’s broken his promise to be an equal partner in the home but . . . OK, fair point.
