Kelly’s oldest daughter, when she was about eleven or twelve, said to Kelly one day while they were driving in the car: “No offense, but I don’t want to be a stay-at-home mom.” Kelly replied: “I’m not offended. I want you to do whatever makes you happy. And if you want to have a job and be a mom, that’s fine. If you don’t want to be a mom, that’s fine. If you don’t want to get married, that’s fine. Whatever you want to make you happy, that’s all I want for you: to be healthy and happy.”