“You approached me. I tried to slow things down, but in the end spending a night with you was a gift and I took it. We drank and we talked and you treated me like an equal because, in worlds where you don’t know where I came from, you actually let yourself be attracted to me. I was going to leave before things went too far, but you were charming and open and lonely and you wanted me. I know it wasn’t real. But you wanted me before I said a word. I’ll say I’m sorry it happened if you want me to, but I won’t mean it.”