Dr. Jim Kim once told me that I would never understand what it’s like to live through war. He’s right. I can never understand the experiences that shaped my parents, how it felt to come to America without speaking a lick of English, the racism they must have endured, the violence they’d fled, or the sense of longing they felt for their homeland. It’s why Asian parents want their kids to study unambiguous subjects like math and science, be good at golf and violin, and avoid liberal arts like English or philosophy or political science or cooking—anything subjective can be taken away from you.
