This holds true for adults as well, which is why it’s so important not to ask people to change their behavior when you’re trying to discern the truth. “Look me in the eyes and tell me the truth.” “Turn around and say that to my face.” Any of these sound familiar? If what you’re really after is the truth, the key is to notice the behavior, but not change it. If you’re trying to extract information, why would you want to alter someone’s tell? Plus, it’s a pretty major misconception that people can’t lie when they’re looking directly at you. Personally, I can look you in the eyes all day long and
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