That said, one of the most common ways for communication to fall apart is when we get wrapped up in our egos. We make everything about us and fail to look at a situation from another person’s perspective, not taking their values and feelings and circumstances into account. But if you want to communicate well and influence behavior, you need to tap into your humility. Because it’s not always about you. In fact, getting out of your own way is the only way you’re going to get what you want, which brings me to the next strategy…

