I’m a huge proponent of treating people with dignity and respect, but when it comes to your safety, don’t be worried about whom you offend. Manners and politeness have zero to do with minimizing risk and vulnerability. Don’t let being nice get in the way of being smart. Start paying attention to that force inside you. Allow your instincts to lead you in life. You can start small to begin honing this ability. Pay attention to your feelings and sentiments around people. Who are you drawn to? Who are you repelled by? What does your gut tell you to do? Whatever feelings you notice, good or bad,
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