Existential Kink: Unmask Your Shadow and Embrace Your Power (A method for getting what you want by getting off on what you don't)

by Carolyn Elliott

humans tend to experience the sensations of life through an emotional spectrum that ranges from hedonistic pleasure to profound grief. Plenty of us have a hard time going fully into grief, but it's very important to do because if you don't fully feel your grief, you can never fully feel your pleasure.