Existential Kink: Unmask Your Shadow and Embrace Your Power (A method for getting what you want by getting off on what you don't)

by Carolyn Elliott

2) Create a container for yourself by lighting a candle and some incense, and setting a timer for 15 minutes. Creating a container means setting up some basic bounds of space and time to contain your experience so that you can more deeply sink into it. When you have a container, you don't need to worry about getting “lost” in this far-out bizarro meditation, because you have set aside a special, finite time and place for it. I suggest that you create a spatial container for this work by going into a comfortable room where you can close the door and not be disturbed. I also suggest that you create a temporal container for this work by setting a timer for fifteen minutes and lighting a candle and/or burning some incense. If incense smoke doesn't agree with you, you could spray some rose water or Agua de Florida.