Existential Kink: Unmask Your Shadow and Embrace Your Power (A method for getting what you want by getting off on what you don't)

by Carolyn Elliott

I learned first-hand that by embracing my “psychic masochism,” by recognizing and empowering the darkness of my “shadow,” and in the end taking “pleasure” in my yucky stuff that I could do something amazing. I could completely integrate my “good” self with my “bad” self and become a whole person. Healed.