Existential Kink: Unmask Your Shadow and Embrace Your Power (A method for getting what you want by getting off on what you don't)

by Carolyn Elliott

our conscious minds and identities (that is, the people we usually imagine ourselves to be) are just the very tippy tiny top of the immense underwater icebergs of our actual psychic totalities. And oh, what giant, gnarly icebergs we all are!