Existential Kink: Unmask Your Shadow and Embrace Your Power (A method for getting what you want by getting off on what you don't)

by Carolyn Elliott

But we know that just insisting “No, I AM allowed to feel good about my worth! I am totally allowed to feel beautiful and powerful!” doesn't work for longer than a hot minute, or else everyone who ever tried affirmations would be a blissful saint by now.