Existential Kink: Unmask Your Shadow and Embrace Your Power (A method for getting what you want by getting off on what you don't)

by Carolyn Elliott

reality is fractal and holographic. Tiny changes that you make within yourself can have dramatic effects in the “external” world because you and the “external” world are not truly separate. In other words, magic is possible because of the fractal and holographic nature of reality. When you change something “small” within yourself or your immediate environment, you automatically change something very “large”—the whole world. This means that we are never not doing magic. We are always doing magic, we are always exerting influence. It's just that habitually, humans tend to do magic that's either just plain boring or destructive (there's that shadow again).