Existential Kink: Unmask Your Shadow and Embrace Your Power (A method for getting what you want by getting off on what you don't)

by Carolyn Elliott

I feel important and valued and also overcrowded and put upon and smothered, which, I came to realize, turns out not only to be a MASSIVE sexual turn-on, but also a) enables me to avoid putting a lot of time and effort into my creative projects (in case I fail, I am therefore not perfect)