Existential Kink: Unmask Your Shadow and Embrace Your Power (A method for getting what you want by getting off on what you don't)

by Carolyn Elliott

take all the embracing-approval-seeking-inherent-perfection-perceiving power of your spirit, tell your ego “thanks but you can shut the fuck up for a while,” and send all that embracing-approval-seeking-inherent-perfection-perceiving down to your actual life, body, emotions, and present situation.