Existential Kink: Unmask Your Shadow and Embrace Your Power (A method for getting what you want by getting off on what you don't)

by Carolyn Elliott

when well-intentioned people tell me to “question my beliefs” as a means of opening my mind. I find it's much more liberating to question my “fundamental truths” because my most potent beliefs are the ones that I don't even consciously experience as beliefs, but just as “the way things are” and “who I am.”