The circumstances and relationships that we create often just don't feel “synchronous” or “magical” because they're repetitions that we're accustomed to; they feel maybe a bit boring and confining, a bit expected. Many of us have unconsciously accepted conditioned identities as “wrong” or “broken” or “deserving of resentment” or “not deserving to be highly valued”—and so we continue to magically generate results that reflect and affirm that.