Existential Kink: Unmask Your Shadow and Embrace Your Power (A method for getting what you want by getting off on what you don't)

by Carolyn Elliott

The more I thought about other people absolutely refusing to highly value me and my work, the more aroused I got. Gradually it dawned on me: Well of course I don't make $1000 an hour; I am so turned on by being devalued and rejected!