Some people try to fix their sexual problems with more rules. You’re looking at the queen of boundaries in dating. I tried everything. What I discovered is that the question is never, “How far is too far?” but “Do I really desire to be holy?” Holiness keeps us at peace with our holy God. We are called to be holy, set-apart people, but when our hearts don’t desire what God desires for us, there is no rule we will not break. Physical standards don’t work if your heart doesn’t love what God loves.
