Several couples close to them had divorced, and it spooked both of them. “Over coffee one morning on our back porch, we discussed our friends’ divorces. One of us asked the other, ‘Are we headed in that direction?’ The answer seemed obvious. We decided to sit together and discuss what we could do to prevent it. We really didn’t have an answer, so we agreed to return the next morning to discuss it again, and the next, and the next.” What they both wanted was a way to have safe discussions—to talk through any issue, no matter how hard, without remorse or regret or hard feelings. It made sense to
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