What does a new mom gain by putting on the façade that she is bouncing back at record speed and that she can handle the baby, handle the house, and handle herself without any help? She’s not doing anyone any favors by pressuring herself, and she’s just furthering this narrative for other moms who think they need to do the same. Be lazy, be indulgent, and really try to relish those sweet first moments… because they don’t last forever.
