the fact that these people don’t give a hoot about housework and none of them even notices me constantly cleaning up after them, sorting through their papers and all their little plastic toys and worry dolls, and scratched DVDs and dusty honey bears and about-to-be-squashed smart phones, loading the dishwasher, unloading the dishwasher, putting styptic sticks away, buying groceries and underwear and oftentimes cooking two or three meals a day, with different foods each day for each and every kid, to make sure they get their “varied and colorful” diet,