that, the fact that all they do is make her life sound so paltry, meaningless, all her strivings summed up in half a sentence, Bingo, charity work, crochet, snickerdoodles, the fact that it’s almost like they want to make her seem small and insignificant, even while they praise her and offer their thoughts and prayers and so on, just so that they can push her aside and forget about her as fast as possible,
