the fact that some moms are bullies, and some are cold, and some are monsters, and some are undependable, or critical, and, compared to all those, I don’t think I’m so bad, but Stacy does, the fact that she’ll probably be glad if I get eaten by a hungry bear, one carnivore inside another, carnivore karma, the fact that it’s horrible to be criticized by your own daughter who once looked up to you, but that’s over,