the fact that, I mean, boy, your kid can damage or destroy herself, wreck her life and yours, at any moment, with one bad decision, high swing, and there’s zilch you can do about it, Annual Northwestern Faculty Summer Picnic, the fact that then your life would just be over, Sandy Hook, the fact that this is kind of a hard fact to face, and I think the way moms survive is by not facing it most of the time, not until you absolutely have to,