Make relationship goals just as you would career goals. I never understand people who say, “I’m not looking for a relationship; if it happens it happens.” We get educated for our work lives and take internships at companies we aspire to be a part of, but we don’t put in the same effort to being ready to find the person we will spend our lives with and create a family. That we leave up to chance. I wouldn’t live in a house without a foundation. I have the relationship I wanted because I prioritized having it
