But when two people get divorced because one of them let a third person into the marriage, the person who was left behind faces years of psychological warfare they launch against themselves. Your person didn’t love you enough. Do you know how devastating that is? To realize you weren’t loved enough. I spent two years asking myself what I could have done better, scouring my memories for signs that he was unhappy. Why didn’t he tell me? I could have changed, I could have tried harder, I could have… Maybe I shouldn’t have waited to be better. Is that the problem with all of us—we need a reminder
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