When it comes to the constant canceling and de rigueur flakiness, Daisy explains that she has had panic attacks and canceled on events because of anxiety in the past. “Now I know the difference in myself when I’m anxious and it’s making me ill,” she says, explaining that this is a perfectly valid reason to cancel. “But if I’m just feeling a bit run-down and want to hide behind ‘self-care,’ then I know I should probably show up for my commitments.”