There was one guy I made out with in high school who I knew knew I was trans, and he was fine with it. We were good friends, and the few times we had made out were total flukes. It turned out he was gay but wasn’t ready to come out while we were in high school together. He texted me on the day I posted my coming-out video and said, “Turns out you were the first guy I ever kissed!” It was one of the best coming-out responses I’ve ever received.