“Don. I’m impressed, but… changing to meet someone else’s expectations may not be a good idea. You may end up resenting it.” I didn’t think this was likely. I was learning some new protocols, that was all. “If you really love someone,” Claudia continued, “you have to be prepared to accept them as they are. Maybe you hope that one day they get a wake-up call and make the changes for their own reasons.” This last statement connected with the fidelity rule that I had in my mind at the beginning of the discussion. I did not need to raise the subject now. I had the answer to my question. Claudia
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