THINGS TO REMEMBER Don’t engage in mind reading. It isn’t a human skill. Think of your ego as a tool, not your identity. Track your predictions to build up some useful humility about your worldview. Put yourself in embarrassing situations regularly to teach yourself there is no lasting pain. The past no longer exists. Don’t let your attachment to the past influence your decisions today. If you haven’t mentioned the next best alternative to your proposed plan, you haven’t said anything at all, and smart people would be wise to ignore you. If you are arguing over the definition of a word instead
THINGS TO REMEMBER Don’t engage in mind reading. It isn’t a human skill. Think of your ego as a tool, not your identity. Track your predictions to build up some useful humility about your worldview. Put yourself in embarrassing situations regularly to teach yourself there is no lasting pain. The past no longer exists. Don’t let your attachment to the past influence your decisions today. If you haven’t mentioned the next best alternative to your proposed plan, you haven’t said anything at all, and smart people would be wise to ignore you. If you are arguing over the definition of a word instead of the best way forward, you are not part of the productive world. If you are sure one variable is all you need to grasp a complicated topic, the problem is probably on your end. Occam’s razor (the idea that the simplest explanation is usually correct) is utter nonsense in the way it is commonly employed. We all think our opinions are the simplest explanations. Fairness cannot be obtained in most cases because of its subjective nature. The closest you can get is equal application of the law. If your argument depends on that one time something happened, you do not have an argument. You have a story. If your argument depends entirely on the so-called slippery slope, you don’t have much of an argument. Everything changes until there’s a reason for it to stop. Mowing your lawn is not a slippery slope to shaving your dog. Coincidences usually mean nothing. And they are the fuel of confirm...
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