You're a Miracle (and a Pain in the Ass): Embracing the Emotions, Habits, and Mystery That Make You You

by Mike McHargue

In this way, “niceness,” which is to say, distancing ourselves from uncomfortable feelings, becomes a veneer that masks the cruel and inequitable foundation of our civilization.

My friends: We are always in process. This book is not about being some finished product, some enlightened soul who transcends

pain and loss, and always sends a thoughtful thank-you note. No, this book says you are a miracle, because like me you survive all this and worse, and you are still here. This book says you are stronger than you’ll ever imagine, even if you feel weak.