Brian Cotie

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Finally, punishment and prohibition are really ineffective. They train people to hide their behaviors, not to alter them. Social acceptance and support, on the other hand, are effective counterpressures to the anxiety that fuels our compulsions. This is why it’s far more effective to offer education, open conversation, and professional support when people are struggling with unregulated behavioral patterns. Openness in community is a salve that helps us heal.
You're a Miracle (and a Pain in the Ass): Embracing the Emotions, Habits, and Mystery That Make You You
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