On the other hand, fearful-avoidant types know they want to be loved but are terrified of being close enough to others to be hurt. People with this attachment style tend to have unpredictable and explosive emotional displays in their significant relationships. They’re in a constant “push-pull” cycle trying to draw others near enough to meet their needs while keeping them at arm’s length as a defense. Relationships with fearful-avoidant types are roller-coaster thrill rides with soaring highs and crushing lows. These types lean into their partner for safety, but start feeling trapped once they
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